I took resil: wisdom on my barb

[Kurald Galain]

Resilient is a half feat, their Str lowered because they turned a +2 Str into Res:Wis,

I don't think that's what OP meant, because (a) it doesn't go from 18 str / 8 wis to 16 str / 10 wis, and (b) OP mentions a respec and that's not a respec.