We're talking about plot and narrative here, not video game difficulty. Honor Mode is irrelevant.
No no, put those goalposts back down. You can resolve the Shadow Druids plotline regardless of party makeup; that's what matters. "Certain outcomes" is not the question being asked.
The plot there is "defeat the goblin leaders." Whether the spiders can help you or not is irrelevant, they are one small way of getting help with that plotline that isn't even needed.
Same as above; "one outcome" or "certain outcomes" does not matter, you can resolve the Auntie Ethel story regardless of party makeup.
You haven't found any, nor will you.