I mean, a game element can be both a resource and a constraint. See also spell slots, or attunement slots for that matter.
These two (building PCs and playing PCs) are not at odds with one another though, they both matter. Presenting them in such an either/or fashion is like... a weird version of Stormwind.
Not one but two personal opinions presented as objective fact. Interesting.
I'd be fine with martial concentration-duration buffs. If someone ever gets around to a 5e version of ToB I could see Stances using it.
The one concern I would have is that concentration is also meant as a way to discourage casters from being hit; and sure, no PC really wants to be hit, but martials (especially "tanks") do have a slightly different incentive structure in that regard.