Hopefully there's not an actual hard disagreement over the spirit wood. I'll just point out that:
1) I'm actually planning to do something with it next, and don't have
other plans...
2) Shandara is the one who paid for it.
3) There was no actual agreement, verbal or otherwise, to share it.
4) We can probably expect more spirit wood arriving sometime later in game time.. though in pbp a few months could be years in real life.
edit: yeah, I am rather confused by this whole notion of, "I own it," said so confidently. This is said by the guy who only had 100/800 gp to buy it, not even counting expense of the other wood he was interested in buying. He offered that he could try to get a loan, but again, nothing was ever concretely agreed upon. The wood seller never agreed to hold the wood, nor sell it on promise of a loan, nor say explicitly he was selling to Aiden.
Either way: I'm all for experimenting with the wood (again, this is what I am about to do now that other plots are resolved). I'm all for keeping Aiden in the loop and involved. But I do want control/ownership of it because what I want to do primarily is attempt to make wands out of it, not cups, flutes, and drum sticks.