Quote Originally Posted by 137beth View Post
With that kind of person, you'll never be "good enough." If you meet some criteria for being "truly trans," they'll just move the goalpost.
Seconding this, and it's sadly not unique to cis people (although it is far, far more common there). A good friend of mine got dumped by her girlfriend because said girlfriend hadn't transitioned enough, and her girlfriend claimed she couldn't go through the pain of the early stages of transition again... despite the fact that she herself was trans and was no stranger to being seen as insufficiently feminine. Not someone I'm fond of.

Trans women are women, and if you can't accept them at the start of their transition, you're not going to suddenly accept them later on either.