Hey, coming up with names is my middle name!
As for how to respond to the dreams, do whatever you want, and I’ll keep pace - reflect on it from afar as a prisoner to the past, rage against it from within the memory, play it out how it was… it’s all good. We’re just filling out some backstory the longer, more fun way that lets me plan things, and write about heart eating and happy doomed elf lovers and desperate dying fiefdoms!