Personal Woes and Advice 6

[Tvtyrant]

Sorry to hear things panned out that way, Tvtyrant-- though I have to say, I'm with Honest Tiefling, sounds like you're better off out of that relationship even if it doesn't feel that way just now.

@TvTyrant- Listen to Honest Tiefling. She's honest, after all.
Seriously though, you are well rid of that person. A good friend of ours left an emotionally abusive relationship, and your description is spookily similar to hers. Just stand clear, sort yourself out, and figure out who you are again.

I don't know enough to claim that it was emotional abuse, but it definitely seems like it was unhealthy for you and that she wasn't the right person for you anyways. You don't seem to have overreacted one bit.

I'm feeling somewhat better about it now. The sense of relief is pretty strong at this point, which is a welcome reprieve from the feeling of guilt.