Not Another Swashbuckler Build!

[Waker]

Jade Dragon, that post by Crasical...I can't find the words. Were I capable of emotion, I would cry.

After thinking about it though, I would say that Ruby Rose Knight would be better. They get Perform, but they are also immune to Cha damage/drain. Go with Stand Fast from cityscape to add your Charisma bonus to resist the special attacks I listed above. I wish I could remember how to get Charisma to spells in place of Wisdom, but the only thing I can think of it Lost Tradition.
Make a super charisma focused paladin.